Business Expenses: Personal vs. Deductible (With Real Examples)
- Lauren Knoll
- Oct 27
- 8 min read
Because the line between business and personal isn't always as clear as you think
One of the most common questions we get from business owners is some variation of "Can I deduct this?" followed by a description of an expense that falls somewhere in the gray area between personal and business. The answer is usually "It depends," which isn't very helpful when you're trying to figure out your taxes.
The truth is, the IRS has rules about what makes an expense deductible, but those rules aren't always black and white. Understanding where the line is drawn can save you money on taxes while keeping you out of trouble with the IRS.
Let's walk through the real-world scenarios that cause confusion and give you a framework for making the right decisions.
The Basic Rule: Ordinary and Necessary
The IRS says business expenses must be both "ordinary" and "necessary" to be deductible. But what does that actually mean?
Ordinary: Common and accepted in your industry or business
Necessary: Helpful and appropriate for your business (doesn't have to be essential)
This seems straightforward until you start dealing with real-life situations where business and personal overlap. When you're unsure whether an expense qualifies or how to handle mixed-use situations, we can help you understand the rules and make informed decisions about what's deductible for your specific circumstances.
The Home Office: Where Life and Work Collide

When Your Home Office Qualifies
The exclusive use test is key: the space must be used only for business. If your dining room table doubles as your desk, it doesn't qualify. But if you have a dedicated corner of your living room that's set up as an office and used only for work, that can qualify.
Real example: A graphic designer uses the guest bedroom exclusively as her office. She works there, stores business files, and meets with clients via video calls. This qualifies for the home office deduction.
Doesn't qualify: The same designer who works at her kitchen table and stores business files in a closet mixed with personal items.
What You Can and Can't Deduct
You can deduct your percentage of rent or mortgage interest, utilities like electricity and heating, home insurance for the business portion, repairs and maintenance to the office area, and depreciation if you own the home.
You can't deduct lawn care and landscaping unless clients visit your home office, general home improvements that don't affect the office, personal use of utilities, or the first phone line to your home (though a dedicated business line is deductible).
Calculation Methods
The simplified method lets you deduct $5 per square foot up to 300 square feet for a maximum $1,500 deduction. It's easier to calculate with no depreciation complications, making it good for smaller offices or first-time deductions.
The actual expense method calculates costs based on the percentage of your home used for business. This potentially gives you a larger deduction but requires detailed record-keeping and can include depreciation. It's better for larger home offices or expensive homes.
Choosing the right method depends on your specific situation and can impact your taxes for years to come. We can help you run the numbers on both methods to determine which approach maximizes your savings.
Vehicle Expenses: The Daily Commute vs. Business Travel

What Counts as Business Mileage
Business mileage includes driving to client meetings or job sites, travel between multiple work locations in one day, trips to pick up business supplies, bank trips for business deposits, and driving to networking events or business conferences.
Not deductible: commuting from home to your regular workplace, personal errands even if you stop for business supplies, or driving to and from lunch unless it's a business meal.
The Commuting Exception
If you have a regular workplace, driving there from home is commuting, not business travel.
But there are exceptions. A consultant who usually works from her home office and drives to a client's location for a day-long project can deduct that mileage because her home office is her regular place of business.
Documentation Requirements
You must document the date of travel, business purpose, destination, miles driven, and total business miles for the year. Apps like MileIQ, Stride Tax, and QuickBooks Self-Employed can help with tracking.
Meals and Entertainment: The Social Side of Business

Current Business Meal Rules
The rules changed significantly in recent years. Office snacks and meals for employees, company holiday parties and picnics, and meals at company meetings and conferences are 100% deductible.
Meals with clients or potential clients, business travel meals, and meals at business conferences you attend are 50% deductible.
Personal meals even during business travel, entertainment expenses like sporting events or concerts, and meals where no business is discussed aren't deductible at all.
Documentation Requirements
You must document the amount spent, date and location, business purpose, and people who attended.
Example of proper documentation: Receipt for $65 lunch at Romano's Restaurant on 10/15/24 with John Smith from ABC Company to discuss Q4 marketing contract.
While these documentation requirements seem simple, many business owners miss deductions by not tracking them properly throughout the year or struggle with borderline situations. We can help you set up systems to capture all eligible meal deductions and ensure your documentation meets IRS requirements.
Technology and Equipment: Personal vs. Business Use

The Mixed-Use Challenge
If you use your personal phone 40% for business, you can deduct 40% of the monthly bill. You need to track business versus personal usage, and business calls, emails, and apps count as business use.
For computers and tablets used exclusively for business, you can deduct 100%. If used 70% for business, you can deduct 70%. You must document the business use percentage.
Software and Subscriptions
Accounting software like QuickBooks, industry-specific software, project management tools, and business communication platforms are clearly business deductible.
Mixed-use scenarios include Adobe Creative Suite for a part-time photographer or Microsoft Office for someone who uses it personally and professionally. Keep a log of business versus personal use, or better yet, maintain separate accounts for business use.
Travel Expenses: Business Trips vs. Personal Vacations

Pure Business Travel
Transportation to and from business destinations, lodging while away on business, meals during business travel, local transportation at the business destination, and business-related expenses like conference fees are fully deductible.
Mixed Business and Personal Travel
The primary purpose test determines deductibility. If the primary purpose of the trip is business, transportation costs are deductible. If it's primarily personal, they're not.
Example 1: A business consultant flies to Chicago for a three-day conference, then stays two extra days to visit friends. The airfare is deductible because the primary purpose was business. Hotel costs are deductible for the business days only.
Example 2: The same consultant plans a week-long vacation in Chicago and schedules one business meeting. The primary purpose is personal, so airfare isn't deductible. Only expenses directly related to the business meeting would qualify.
Education and Professional Development

Deductible Education Expenses
Education that maintains or improves skills needed in your current business, meets requirements to keep your professional status, or includes industry conferences and professional certification programs is deductible.
Education that qualifies you for a new profession, personal interest courses unrelated to your business, or education required to meet minimum job requirements isn't deductible.
Real example: A marketing consultant taking a digital advertising course to improve her services can deduct the cost. A teacher taking courses to become a real estate agent cannot deduct those costs as a business expense from her teaching business.
Clothing and Appearance

Most clothing expenses are personal, even if you wear them to work. But there are exceptions. Uniforms required by your employer, protective clothing like hard hats and safety shoes, costumes for performers, and clothing with company logos that can't be worn outside work are deductible.
Business suits and professional attire, dry cleaning of regular business clothes, and shoes and accessories for professional appearance aren't deductible.
The "suitable for everyday wear" test applies: if you could wear it outside of work, it's probably not deductible.
Insurance: Protecting Business vs. Personal Assets

General liability insurance, professional liability, business property insurance, cyber liability insurance, and business interruption insurance are clearly deductible business expenses.
Self-employed individuals have special rules for health insurance. You can deduct health insurance premiums for yourself and family as an adjustment to income, not a business expense. You must show net profit from self-employment and cannot be eligible for an employer-sponsored health plan.
Life insurance premiums for yourself and personal disability insurance are generally not deductible. Key person life insurance for employees and life insurance as part of employee benefits sometimes are.
Red Flags That Attract IRS Attention
Patterns that raise questions include deducting 100% of vehicle expenses unless it's truly exclusively business, home office deductions for rental properties, large meal and entertainment expenses relative to income, and round numbers on multiple expense categories.
Poor documentation practices that create red flags include missing receipts for large expenses, vague business purpose descriptions, personal expenses mixed with business, and retroactive record creation.
Setting Up Systems for Success
Separation Strategies
Use separate business bank accounts and credit cards, use business accounts only for business expenses, pay yourself a salary or take draws rather than mixing funds, and maintain separate business and personal phones or email when possible.
If you're struggling to establish clear separation or aren't sure how to structure your business finances, we can provide guidance on setting up systems that work for your specific situation and business structure.
Documentation Systems
Keep receipts for all business expenses, mileage logs with business purpose, calendar entries showing business meetings, bank statements and cancelled checks, and contracts and invoices.
Digital tools that help include receipt scanning apps like Shoeboxed and Expensify, mileage tracking apps, cloud storage for document organization, and accounting software with expense categorization.
Setting up the right combination of tools and processes can be overwhelming. We can help you choose systems that fit your workflow and ensure you're capturing everything you need for tax compliance.
When in Doubt: The Conservative Approach
Before deducting any questionable expense, ask yourself: Is this ordinary for my type of business? Is it necessary for my business operations? Can I document the business purpose? Would I be comfortable explaining this to the IRS? Is the business benefit clear and significant?
If deducting an expense would keep you awake at night wondering if it's legitimate, it probably falls too far into the gray area. When in doubt, be conservative or consult with a professional.
We can help you evaluate borderline expenses and make informed decisions about what's deductible in your specific circumstances, so you don't have to guess or leave money on the table.
Getting Professional Guidance: Personal vs. Deductible Expenses
Situations that warrant professional advice include complex mixed-use expenses, uncertainty about home office qualifications, travel expenses with significant personal elements, facing an IRS audit or inquiry, or deductions that seem high relative to your income.
When working with your CPA, provide complete information about your situation, ask about documentation requirements, understand the reasoning behind recommendations, and plan ahead rather than asking after the fact.
The Bottom Line: When Business and Personal Overlap
The key to handling mixed business and personal expenses is understanding that the IRS expects you to be reasonable and honest. They're not trying to trick you, but they do expect you to follow the rules and maintain proper documentation.
Most business owners err on the side of being too conservative, leaving legitimate deductions on the table. Others push too far into gray areas and risk problems down the road. The smart approach is understanding where the lines are drawn and documenting everything properly.
Remember: being aggressive with deductions and being careless with deductions are two different things. Aggressive means taking every legitimate deduction you're entitled to. Careless means poor documentation and questionable business purposes.
Your goal should be to pay exactly what you legally owe—not more, not less.
Confused about what you can and can't deduct in your specific situation? We help business owners navigate the gray areas of business expenses while maintaining compliance and maximizing legitimate deductions. From setup and documentation to ongoing advice, we'll help you handle the complexity with confidence.
Ready to get clarity on your business deductions to help you decide between personal vs deductible expenses?
Call us: (828) 570-5760
Email us: info@denisestubbscpa.com
Because knowing the rules helps you make better business decisions.
This blog post is provided for educational purposes only and does not constitute personalized financial, tax, or investment advice. Tax laws are complex, change frequently, and vary based on individual circumstances. Before implementing any strategies discussed, please consult with qualified financial advisors, tax professionals, or CPAs who can assess your specific situation. This content should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional consultation.



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